From Strap-Ons To Cock Rings: The Best LGBTQ+ Sex Toys For People With Penises And Vulvas

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Pride started as a protest, there’s no disputing that fact. And while that sentiment needs to continue today more than ever, allow me to present something radical: pleasure is resistance.

While of course it’s important to recognise and shout about the myriad ways queer people continue to be excluded from rights and society, if there’s one thing that’s going to stick it to the man, it’s us having a banging good time.

And I mean that literally: partying and drinking, duh, but also chasing that orgasm high. 

So you can get your socks off this Pride month, whether you have a penis or vulva, I’ve consulted sexologist and therapist for Passionerad Sofie Roos to help me round up the best LGBTQ+ sex toys to shop now.

Best LGBTQ+ sex toys at a glance:

What are the different types of LGBTQ+ sex toys?

A sex toy is a sex toy, meaning any type can work for straight people and queer folk alike (if you get creative enough), according to Roos.

“The most common queer sex toy categories are basically the same as for straight people, which includes:

What to look for when buying a sex toy as an LGBTQ+ person

1. Stimulation

“Do you want the toy to focus on the clitoris, give vaginal stimulation, stimulate the G-spot, your penis, balls, anal, the prostate, nipples or something else, and do you value how it looks or only how it feels?” Roos recommends asking yourself. 

2. Materials

“Look for toys made out of bod- safe materials, such as medical silicone, glass or stainless steel,” Roos adds. “Pay attention to user reviews, try to pick well- established retailers and brands, and go for one premium toy rather than two or three budget options.”

3. It’s personal

“You don’t need to go for the most popular sex toys, but rather you should try to find something that feels right for your body and identity, and looks like it will help you discover what gives you pleasure,” Roos emphasises. A good sign you’ll like something is if the mere sight of it excites you.

Keep reading to find our round up of the best LGBTQ+ to shop, and our tips for how to figure out which you’ll enjoy the most.

19 best LGBTQ+ sex toys in 2026

What are the LGBTQ+ sex toy trends in 2026?

Fantasy and non-realistic dildos

In 2026, non-realistic dildos are especially popular, according to Roos. “This includes fantasy dildos, such as dragon or beast models, and dildos that are gender-neutral and don’t look like penises, but instead have strong colours, no glans and no balls,” she says.

Long-distance toys

“More queer people are entering relationships with folk who live far away, for example because the dating scene is too small where they live, which has made everything from WiFi controlled vibrators, to remote butt plugs, and distance controlled sleeves extra trendy,” Roos explains.

Journey not the destination

In 2026, sex toys are also starting to focus less on orgasm as the end goal, and more on the experience of pleasure as a whole, Roos adds.

“I’ve noticed a bigger interest in sexual wellbeing products, rather than to only focus on giving strong orgasms,” she says. “More and more, sex toys are talked about as an important part of mental health, in getting to know your body better, and for creating better and stronger intimacy both with yourself and your partner.”

How to discuss using a sex toy with a partner

Relaxed, honest, and curious communication

“Bring it up outside the bedroom in a situation where you’re both relaxed,” Roos recommends. Rather than bring these conversations up during sex, which can make your partner feel pressured, approach it in a neutral setting with curiosity, and ask whether it’s something your partner would be interested in.

“Bring up your expectations, boundaries, needs and what you feel comfortable and curious about, as well as what you don’t want to try, this as it gives much better opportunities for having a great experience from the start,” Roos adds. “The more you talk, and the more honest you are, the easier and safer it will be to go from theory to actually testing a sex toy together.”

Addition, not replacement

While talking about sex toys, make sure to emphasise their purpose is to add to both partners’ pleasure, rather than replace them. “Try to be clear that sex toys are a complement, and something that enriches your already fun, hot, and intimate sex life,” Roos says. “This is to avoid your partner feeling like the toy is a replacement for them.”

Aftercare

Once you’re done, talk about the experience and what you both enjoyed. “Ask what felt good, what would you want to try next time, and what didn’t feel comfortable,” Roos recommends.