Should I let my nine-year-old daughter wax her moustache?

Teaching body positivity is one thing. Helping a child navigate social pressure – while preserving agency – is another

Hi Ugly,

My nine-year-old daughter has become aware that she has a moustache. (I’m a hairy Italian, this is her birthright.) It’s more noticeable than anything her friends have, and visible in pictures.

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